May 15: Dinner Last Night

Most families probably have the rule: "we are cooking only one meal. Eat it or you get nothing."  Or... "every bite you leave on your dinner plate will be your breakfast in the morning." Or... "don't want what we cooked? Well, then YOU can start cooking dinner from now on, and it must be healthy and well-balanced." Or... what we grew up with ... "you WILL stay seated at the table until the last bit is gone."

Sooo hard to force me, a picky eater, to eat things I couldn't even stand to smell. I obviously never got over my love/hate relationship with food. It is complicated.

When my kid was born, some 25+ years ago, I didn't want him to obsess over food like I do. I decided to make what my picky eater likes to eat, and will grab something else for me.

For the most part it works.

These are pics from last night's dinner. I wasn't hungry (still with stomach pains so just a bar for me), and Weslee was planning on just having chips. 


He doesn't normally get that many grapes, but they're starting to go bad so I washed them and told him to eat the ones that weren't too squishy. He also got six chicken rings, and yes tons of ketchup. And he had apple slices and little bag of carrots. That kept him well until today's first meal.


For lunch, I had half of a turkey sandwich with lettuce snd apple slices. For dinner, well, that sandwich / lunch put my stomach back in the ringer so I ate SOME of the bar and put the rest in the fridge.

It doesn't help that most bars taste like chalk so I washed it down with a bottle of water.

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Weslee needs more brain surgery for his seizures.  Please go to his Medical GoFundMe or to our Paypal ... Thank you.

May 13: Dinner Under Protest

I am so tired of being tired. Tired of headaches, sudden bruises, exhaustion, restless limbs, craving sweets, pain in former surgical spots ... ALL kinds of reasons / justifications (??) ... well, you get the point.

I can trace a large portion to:

  • Being very overweight
  • Stress eating
  • Stress
When I find something to eat that I actually like (such a picky eater), I stick with for a while. I know that within a few days or possibly a week, I will get bored of it. Whatever is left in the fridge or cupboard, I am sorry to say, will probably get tossed. (My son is even pickier that me!)

All this to get to tonight's late dinner. I really didn't want to eat, but knew I needed to.

I was in bed all day, pain throught my bod plus another migraine (5th day), severe stomach pain (3rd day), vomiting and nausea. 

It was nearly 9 p.m. when I roused myself to get to the kitchen.  I scrambled eggs with cheese for my 28-year-old (12-14 years mentally) with apple slices. (He won't choose decent foods unless I am there.)


Then for myself, I fried a couple of eggs and ate them with lettuce (forgot to take a pic). After, I had some sliced apples, then made another yogurt-and-fruit parfait with strawberries, bananas, and added blueberries to it ... help keep the monotony away.

I need to do better.

Who will take care of my son when I die?




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Weslee needs more brain surgery for his seizures.  Please go to his Medical GoFundMe or to our Paypal ... Thank you.

Apr 30: Midnight Snack

As you might know, I don't sleep much, especially at night (gotta listen for my kid to have a seizure). Consequently, despite keeping busy with painting, writing, etc., I eat a snack.

In this case, it was kinda like a parfait ... cottage cheese with peach preserves with frozen peaches and a single strawberry slice!

Maybe tomorrow, I will go for string cheese with peanut butter.

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My 28 year old (but mentally and emotionally is about 12) son, Weslee, has intractable epilepsy, autism, OCD, ADHD and lots of side effects from lots of brain surgeries. After a week stay at the Cleveland Clinic in 2024, his team of doctors is suggesting more brain surgeries. We need help to get there and back plus with copays, etc.  Please donate through the link below then share this link: https://gofund.me/085ca903 ..

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Dinner For A Picky Person

Eating healthy is difficult when you consider how picky I am (WE are) about food.



Protein: bacon, cashews, cheese

Veg: carrots

Fruit: grapes, blueberries, strawberries